givemeethekeys
Man, I miss this aspect about ICQ (and the internet from the late 90's). Everyone I met online was awesome and from some far away cool place. And if they were anywhere near you - like, let's say, half a day's worth of driving near you - then they were totally down to meet in person!
manuelmoreale
Couple of things:

1. I wrote countless of times on my site that I love emailing with people so if you want to engage in conversation my email is public and it’s also in my profile here

2. I’m also more than happy to send actual mail. Like handwritten on paper. If you like that send me an email and I’ll give you an address.

3. If you like the concept of having penpals this app is worth checking out https://slowly.app/

odomojuli
alias: J.

interests: mathematics, cooking/recipes, culture/arts

languages: Please write to me in any language from anywhere!! And please send math papers!! I'm trying to learn as many languages as I can right now. My current focus is French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, German – then Chinese, Russian, Hindi, Korean, Arabic, and Haitian Creole. I'm going to focus op top-30 most spoken-by-people, then top 30 most spoken-by-countries, then a survey of languages without any incentive (Navajo, Irish, Greek, Hawaiian, Latin, Sanskrit, in general, Classical Languages, Medieval Languages, Modern Languages). I started this journey in August 2023 knowing only N1 Japanese.

link to something you think is cool: https://www.jstor.org/stable/3027072 I would so love to do whole Erdős wanderer thing and focus on publishing papers in different countries with different people in different languages. I like the whole peripatetic element of thinking and living and working and dreaming.

link to something that does not exist: I am building a 'tiny' LLM that is taking a novel approach to language translation. It is incredibly nice to continue this research because I have begun to actually understand more people now and I feel less lonely. It is getting better, but I am absolutely not in any hurry to capitalize on it. I can send you samples of its output by hand in parallel to my own manual translation.

Contact: Write me an email, and we can exchange mailing addresses!

> info[U+0040]odomojuli[U+002E]com

Note: I really love postcards, postage, lettering and hand-made art prints. If you have any appreciation for these things, please let me know – it can take a bit of effort.

as1mov
I wonder if mods would be interested in hosting a official IRC channel for the site. Though now that I look back on my own memories of IRC, the amount of drama is probably not worth the hassle for the them hah. Perhaps an unofficial channel would still be nice.
dkdkdkdkdkdkd

  alias: T.
  interests: I love to talk about hacking/computer security/embedded security and related topics, literature, spending time in nature, hiking, botany, vegetarian cooking, weight loss, remote sensing technologies, archeology, history, philosophy, finance/investing/company valuation (no crypto), electronic music (production), hobby electronics, art, language learning, anything you are weirdly passionate about, ...
  language(s): en 
  link to something you think is cool: there are so many things ! but a somewhat representative selection of current open tabs

  - https://factumfoundation.org/our-projects/3d-sculpting/re-creating-the-colossus-of-constantine/
  - https://codeanlabs.com/blog/research/cve-2024-29510-ghostscript-format-string-exploitation/
  - https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-024-07612-9
  - https://pages.stern.nyu.edu/~adamodar/New_Home_Page/Inv3ed.htm
  - etc.

  contact info: [email protected]
leononame
alias: leononame

Interests: politics, literature, music, film and to some degree art (would love to be in touch with someone who's interested in painting and can make me understand it better) and programming I love cooking as well and I guess I can be interested for anything related to technology.

Languages: German, English, Spanish. Anything else via Google translate

Something that's cool: I recently watched the movie "Drive My Car", very strong recommendations to watch.

Contact info: me[squiggly a]lho[dot]io

GauntletWizard
I'm a lonely computer nerd, and yet despite having made a lot of friends on the internet in my youth, I'm no longer willing to do so. The internet has gotten too weird and polarized, and quite frankly I don't like the people who share my interests. Most nerds are living in fantasy worlds, not just part-time.

The problem is one of degrees - Anyone you notice on a big site is likely posting very often - "Terminally online" is the word. The more niche you go, they are alternatively deeper into their own fantasy worlds. I haven't figured out how to arrange coincidence; Repeated coincidental meetings have long been studied to be the basis of friendship, and intentionally going to "meetups" where the attendance is common but not fixed is the best way to foster that.

Online matchmaking has been the biggest problem here - You are guaranteed a game, but you'll never run into the same people twice. Once upon a time you had localish communities form around servers that were low-ping to them, which really worked well - You were likely to run into the same people, and they were likely to be nearby but not so close that you'd have run into them anyway.

glth

  alias: G.
  interests: computers, programming languages, programmatic puzzles, bacteriophages
  language(s): en, fr
  link to something you think is cool: https://google-research.github.io/self-organising-systems/2022/diff-fsm/
  contact info: moeie.gyj/btfgxnc (Vigenère cipher, the key is this website's name)
xandrius
Alias: X

Interests: creative (video/board) game design/dev (e.g. tiny games exploring philosophical and societal topics), food (including pizza/breadmaking, cheesemaking and fermentation), travelling, nature, camping, hiking, hacking, unique and creative anime/manga/books, whittling, gardening (no dig, regenerative), Ted Chiang, Victorian travelogues and relaxation.

Language(s): English

Link to something you think is cool:

- https://neal.fun/

- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Tatami_Galaxy

- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Malay_Archipelago

Contact info: [email protected]

xigoi

    alias: xigoi
    interests: mathematics, programming, programming languages, numeration systems, minimalism, code golf, constructed languages, board games, puzzles, Minecraft, Minetest, public transport, egalitarianism
    language(s): English, Czech
    link to something you think is cool: https://ao.owo.si/exchange/codegolf/questions/57257/radiation-hardened-quine
    contact info: e-mail at disroot.org with the same username as here
postrock

  alias: V
  interests: gardening (no dig, organic, regenerative), music (post rock, rock, metal, rap/hip hop, some electronic/pop), programming/software, politics (I just like observing from a distance), economics, astrophysics/space (not deeply into science anymore, but sometimes I like to think about things) 
  language(s): English
  link to something you think is cool: clickable link below
  contact info: postrock <A T> fastmail <D 0 T> com
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_the_far_future
eslaught

  alias: Elliott
  interests: science fiction, mental health, programming (of course), writing, and an eclectic assortment of other topics; happy to talk about just about anything
  language(s): English
  link to something you think is cool: https://www.usenix.org/system/files/1311_05-08_mickens.pdf
  contact info: run the program at https://elliottslaughter.com/about/ or see my profile for Keybase (can be used to bootstrap Signal if you want)
coldblues

  alias: ?

  interests: privacy, security, Gwern, note-taking, Zettelkasten, ergonomics (keyboard layouts, mice, etc), nootropics, ADHD, memorization, learning, programming, Linux, old and memorable design (Gnome 2, Aqua), Jonathan Blow, Casey Muratori, hacker cultures, decentralization, piracy, fast and efficient software, music, esoteric and obscure internet rabbit holes, anonymous networks, manga, anime, shooter games, hard science fiction (Blindsight)

  language(s): english

  link to something you think is cool: https://keygenmusic.tk/

  contact info: Signal blind.22
artisanspam
Thank you for making this post. I always love chatting with people.

Alias: artisanspam

Interests: Philosophy pertaining to both political theory and how to live “the good life,” cycling, violin, piano, jazz, PC gaming, design of the built environment (city design, interior design, landscaping) and how it shapes you, meditation, Buddhism (from a secular perspective)

Language(s): English

Link to something you think is cool: Pertaining to built-environment design, I find this YouTube channel interesting: https://youtube.com/@nevertoosmall

Contact info: in bio.

__rito__
alias: rito

interests: Programming Languages, Mathematics, poetry, art (paintings mainly), books (interesting non fiction like Simon Singh, novels by authors like Marquez, Greg Egan, Neal Stephenson), Philosophy, mysticism, anything that tickles my brains, really

languages: English, Bengali

link to something I think is cool: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Factorio

contact info: mail on profile, @<last word of scientific name of humans>_rg_telegraph on Telegram (remove <>)

akudha
Those interested in postcards, check out this site - https://www.postcrossing.com/

This has been around for many years. Though it is mostly for sending postcards, you can still make penpal friends through the site. I have sent handwritten letters to people from the site. I am not that active anymore, but still keep in touch with a couple of people I met on the site.

Highly recommended

LonelyTree

  alias: Alex

  interests: philosophy, startups, photography (film and digital), aerospace, astronomical phenomenon, motorcycles, outdoor adventures, Landcruisers, flying aircraft

  language: English (translators exist so don't hesitate to reach out!!)

  link to something you think is cool: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6d1RKYapFI&ab_channel=CNCKitchen

  contact info: mail in profile
Tweezers7359

  alias: Kurapka
  interests: running, books, travel, dystopian movies
  language(s): EN
  link to something you think is cool: https://youtu.be/Wlb1bdU-G7o?si=MfHeIcpEQBn4VwKI
  contact info: https://signal.me/#eu/4l2c7Kdjc7iNeHmqry8STWL7uLMTjlxRPudorJHzA5ItLQrU-e9GMoynsQd8m12Z
sdsd
I'll start :3

  alias: darigo
  interests: odd operating systems like templeos and Genera, far right politics, far left politics, far center politics, latin america, fencing (HEMA and olympic), self improvement
  language(s): english, spanish
  link to something you think is cool: webrings like https://webring.xxiivv.com/#131
  contact info: ~motluc-nammex (iykyk) or run this Racket code: (string-append (list->string (map (λ (c) (integer->char (- (char->integer c) 1000))) (string->list "ќѐэЖђэћѝћЖщўёєэћ"))) "@gmail.com")
kxrm

  alias: kxrm
  interests: audio engineering, video, radio, all streaming technologies, encryption, music, vintage computing
  language(s): English
  link to something you think is cool: https://string.spiel.com/
  contact info: https://news.ycombinator.com/user?id=kxrm
Bouncingsoul1
alias:BouncingSoul interests: OpenWater/longDistance Swimming,PunkRock, History language: English, German link: https://inforo1300.wordpress.com/ contact info:[email protected] (ceasar +3)
spudlyo

    alias: spud
    interests: books (Austen atm), emacs, songwriting, cooking, guitar, politics, writing, databases, weight loss, health
    language(s): English
    link to something you think is cool: https://songfight.org
    contact info: In my HN bio!
codetrotter

    alias: codetrotter
    interests: FreeBSD, ZFS, computer graphics, Bitcoin
    language(s): Rust, English
    link to something you think is cool: https://youtu.be/JEn3kpysimY
    contact info: https://bsky.app/profile/erikn.bsky.social
breck

  alias: breck
  interests: family, friends, science, nature, freedom, programming languages
  language(s): scroll
  link to something you think is cool: https://pldb.io/lists/creators.html
  contact info: https://warpcast.com/breck
zevra
alias: zevra interests: analyzing and watching people, computer networking, technical theatre, an academic interest in fraud and deception, spiritual beliefs and societal conventions and rules specifically how they effect individuals and populations, lots of other things I can't remember right now. language(s): english link to something you think is cool: https://www.stuartmcmillen.com/comic/deviance-in-the-dark contact info: [email protected]
hxii
alias: hxii

interests: programming, productivity, adhd, stoicism, video and computer games, organization, music, travel, technology, the small web and pretty much anything else.

languages: English, Python, Russian, Ukrainian, Hebrew, maybe Lua

cool stuff: https://unethical.info/2024/01/24/hacking-my-air-purifier/

contact: ten.kahsulg@luap reversed or @MrPaul on Telegram

clestro
alias: clestro

interests: Classic rock, psychology, cybersecurity, privacy, hacking, startups, Linux, FOSS, onebag, skateboarding, playing guitar/bass, bouldering, vinyl records, muscle cars, magic tricks, improv, standup comedy, nyc/bay area.

language(s): English

link to something you think is cool: https://kill-the-newsletter.com/

contact info: [email protected] (will disable once spam starts to come in)

aogposton
alias: aogposton

interests: North Korea people, Authoritarian governments, productivity, catholicism, poetry, art, music, robotics, politics, exercise

languages: English (native), Korean (advanced), c, c++, javascript/typscript, php, python

link: https://apply.opentech.fund

contact info: https://x.com/aogposton

-alternis
alias: alternis

interests: Mathematics, First-Order Logic, Computability, Computer Science, Systems Programming, Finite Element Modelling/Analysis,

Languages: English, French (But my french is only ok)

Link to something you find interesting: https://ersei.net/en/blog/fuse-root

Contact Info: alternis(DOT)0x{11111111 in hex}@gmail.com

hyperfuturism
good idea, here's mine:

  alias: abyss
  interests: crypto, anime, philosophy, indie game dev, japanese indie bands, vtubers, ai, physics, programming, prediction markets, league.
  language(s): english, 
  link to something you think is cool: https://jsomers.net/i-should-have-loved-biology/
  contact info: @abysstrades on telegram or [email protected]
dbg31415
I think this would work better as a Discord server.
willmeyers
alias: will

interests: programming, websites, games, painting and drawing, movies, long walks, making things with people, niche communities, design.

language(s): english

link to something you think is cool: https://thehtml.review/ People are so dang creative.

contact info: in bio

fuero
alias: fuero interests: board games, computer games, languages languages: english, german link to something you think is cool: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/QI contact info: fuero.56
axis093
interests: privacy, security, computers, rpg/ttrpg, tabletop games, programming, electronics, music festivals

language(s): English, Polish, Un poco Español

link to something you think is cool: disroot.org

contact info: [email protected] (will be removed after some time or if I get too much spam)

low_tech_punk
It's just damn cool to see how many ways there are to obfuscate email addresses
whatindaheck
alias: whatindaheck

interests: outdoors, cycling, movies, armchair politics, fabrics

language(s): en

link to something you think is cool: yamatomichi.com - awesome hiking gear

contact info: [email protected] (will disable once spam starts flooding in)

nittanymount
interesting, penpal is a stranger you are familiar with, it is different to how folks talk here. while, it is one type of communication channel, has pros and cons...
codingclaws
alias: codingclaws

interests: piano, React, SwiftUI

languages: English, European Portuguese, JavaScript, Swift

contact info: site and email in profile

TekMol
How does everyone here feel about IRC?

The #startups channel is a great place to meet indie makers who build stuff and are interested in technology.

eliseabock
hell yeah I love community

alias: jah

interests: essentially every branch of philosophy, hacking/infosec, startups, cooking unusual meals, literature, math, theories of intelligence, sharing life stories, listening to smart people talk

language(s): English and a little bit of French (still learning)

link: http://www.hutter1.net/ait.htm (I like AIT a lot)

info: вцудды0ч@gmail.com (English but typed with Russian keyboard)

chaoskanzlerin
Reading these short self-descriptions makes me weirdly disappointed in my own life. You know, undergrad while living with parents while being a repressing queer while having crippling ADHD.
ballerburg9006
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polterguy1000
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