So I meet up with one of my groups of friends for board games (they almost always host something on Friday nights), or meet up with someone for dinner, or meet up with some people at a meetup (recently there's been a new movie+dinner meetup near me that has some cool people I've been going to every other week). Periodically there are parties hosted by my wife's family too. Every once in a while there's a party hosted by a friend.
Besides that, I mostly either try to play catch up with cleaning and/or lawn maintenance, let myself relax, or work on personal projects (working on a video game and several board game designs, sometimes a little work on writing stories or making electronic music).
If it's a nice weekend I try to take the dogs on a walk a bit further away than just around the neighborhood. We've got a nice trail a couple blocks away but there are even better ones and more options about a 10 minute drive away.
I'm also trying to get back into the habit of going to the gym at least one of those days, but I've been failing spectacularly at that so far.
* Cycling somewhere in the city, usually to a new cafe or something
* Hiking with friends
* Boardgames night with friends
* Go to the big shop and buy stuff I can't get easily locally
* Set up the coffee roaster and roast me a few batches
* Do a big tidy/clean up
* Voluntary work at a soup kitchen
It's a _very_ rare weekend I don't have something planned.
I don't do them all on the same weekend, though.
After talking to people all week and dealing with their whims, I lose steam.
I find it impossible to do the things other people find fulfilling. It all seems like more work. I'm exhausted to the core.
More specifically, low energy stuff. Watch TV, read, whatever. The last thing I want is to burn more energy/talk.
Oddly, typing and such doesn't count. Being able to opt out immediately I suppose.
I do a lot of hiking and shopping too although I've been a homebody recently and have been hanging out with a stray cat that we're trying to gentle.
Sat-Sun is 'family & friends' time and activities related to family & friends (no chores). That includes BBQs, walks, cycling, etc. Nothing 'must' and all the 'wants'.
If I was single I'd probably go to the movies at least once a week.
Weekend is only different in that I have more time to invest in activities not related to a fulltime job.
Sometimes I envy people who don't have to worry too much about the roof above their heads, about kids, about the future etc.
But then I realize that I would never really change my way and what I have to anything else, to anyone's else's life. Even with full memory reset :)